181213 想法

今天很心血來潮的想談一談"分手"

以前小時候,覺得戀愛就是兩個相愛的人在一起,性格不合就分手

重點來了,"性格不合就分手"

以前沒什麼經驗,覺得"性格不合就分手"是最合理的原因

那些甚麼家長不同意,遠距離戀愛都是胡扯

但是現在,我才了解到"性格不合"才是真正的胡扯

兩個人,如果一開始就性格不合,那為甚麼會在一起?

就是因為他們都愛對方

那為甚麼過後會因為本來就存在的"性格不合"而分手?

就是因為沒了愛

他們已經不愛對方了,所以不能再包容他們性格上的不合

如果愛還是存在,那麼所謂的"不合"都會被包容和遷就

在一起就不會有問題

相反的,家長反對就很合理

對於那些跟家人很親近的,這絕對是合理的理由

因為如果家人一直反對,從中作梗,那麼本來好好的一段感情也會被外來的壓力給弄垮

遠距離戀愛也是情有可言

兩個人的話題不再相同,認識的人不再一樣,久而久之也是會走遠

但是也不能說遠距離就不會有結果

因為還是有很多人突破了所有障礙最終還是在一起了

說到底,"性格不合"是我見過最扯的理由

要說性格不合,不如說已經不再愛了

好了今天就這樣

來說些題外話

昨天胃風疼得死去活來,連訊息都無法回了

今天在推特還看到有人說自己肚子多麼多麼疼都不能站了必須坐輪椅,

還能按電話拍照更新推特呢!

你是有多疼了?= =

好了現在真的結束了

Ciao~

Gonna do my best

I admit I'm not a very good blogger. In fact, I'm the worst blogger, for not updating as regularly as a real blogger should be. I'm always having free time at home, apart from going out with my partner, or dinner date with my close friends. But I just can't spare out some time for my blog.

The reason I'm back now, is not because I have a sudden realization, is because I've started reading a book called The Happiness Project not long ago, and I went to the author's website and found my motivation to blog again. And it's not only I found the motivation to blog again, but motivation to live my life fuller and happier.

Blogging regularly is always one of the thing I wanted to do, but I just never keep up to my promise: I said I will update regularly and I just happened to disappear for a few months and come back for one post and then disappear again. That's not what I mean for update regularly. Now, I want to try my best to update my blog. Maybe once a week, or twice a week. I hope I can do it more often after I buy a new camera, because that's mean I will take more pictures and I'll have more pictures to upload.

So, today, the 1st of November, I will try my best to update my blog more often.





Till then. Sophie

Lebanese Delicacies | Tarbush & Updates

I said I was gonna update my blog more often and I neglected it again right after I said it.
I fail in blogging. Sorry I'm not sorry. lol

So... the reason of my MIA is partly because I was preparing for my final exams in May, and busying with my personal life, which is kinda a big change in my life and I'm not gonna talk about it now.

But I'm back! Hopefully for real this time. I have quite a lot of free time now since I've finished my exams and most of the time have nothing to do with my life, I think I'm gonna get back on track and BLOG!

So now I'm gonna blog about food as my comeback post, in this middle of the night, so I can make you people droll and I don't even care *evil laughs*


There's this Middle Eastern restaurant at Batu Ferringhi that serves Lebanese food, so we decided to give it a try.

The ambiance was really nice and since it's at Batu Ferringhi, we can go to the beach just right outside the restaurant and enjoy the sunset.

Our appertizer, the Arayes chicken

We were served with the traditional Lebanese bread to eat with our meal.

Kebab kash-kash, minced tender lamb serves with bed of tomato and onion sauce.

Shish Tawook, boneless chicken breast, grilled and serves with Tarbush garlic sauce.

Spicy Shish Tawook

Grilled spring chicken

Shish kebab

Mix grilled

Dessert, the Baklawa.

 And finally group photo. Ker Tyng, Jessica, HuiMin, JingHan, Iylia and mua.

 So, here it is, my first comeback post. Hope you guys enjoy it. Til' then.







-Love, Sophie